www.theasianplayboy.blogspot.com
So the APB blog has been around for 4 years boasting 700 posts and 2 million hits while still being free. To be around for that long means that people have seen something valuable on this blog. Personally, I found the blog after reading, "The Game: Penetrating The Secret Society of Pick-up Artists" by Neil Strauss. I found it interesting that there was an Asian guy who was teaching this stuff and was intrigued by the amount of substantial information within. At first glance the website appears to be comparable to an old Angelfire personal page but the content far surpasses the aesthetic appeal of the layout itself.
In essence, the blog itself boasts the most thought out tips compared to most other websites who discuss the same topics. Most other people give tips that are so broad that it can be interpreted in many ways. APB's blog has broken down many things that successful ladies men do in a manner that can not be interpreted any other way; thus providing more value to the reader. It is no coincidence that the APB blog has received as much popularity as it has.
The reach of APB's blog has influenced and changed the lives of many men who have struggled with meeting women. Whether directly helping men with dating or through taking an ABC's of Attraction workshop, (APB's Dating Company) APB's blog has shown men that anyone can meet the women of their dreams if they work at it. The no non-sense, no bullshit, and unforgiving nature of the blog gives the blog an authentic feel that many other dating sites lack. You see what you get.
For me, reading the blog was my first step into becoming a better and stronger man that I am today. It opened my eyes to things that I had not imagined possible. I've met women more beautiful than I have ever met before reading this blog and am on my way to reaching newer heights in my goals.
So APB, here's a cheers to your blog and congratulations on hitting the 4 year anniversary mark!
Friday, May 29, 2009
Thursday, March 12, 2009
The importance of having female friends.
For the record, I don't call my female friends pivots because I also don't call my male friends wings (unless they are a wing). I have some friends who simply are unable to have a female friend that they're not having sex with, but I find the relationship to be beneficial (For the record, you CAN still be friends and have had sex.) when it doesn't focus on the sex. I reserve that privilege for other women.
I've learned a lot about being around a group of my female friends over the years. Sometimes, I would be the only guy in their circle of conversation and would listen in on when they would talk about an unattractive and needy guy or another guy who was horrible at sex. Sitting in and listening not only gave me some insight on what women talk about, but also what things to avoid in regards to dating women. For a long time, I've developed a pretty good understanding of how women think and it really helped during my interactions with other women that I was sexually interested in.
With my female friends we would playfully slap each other's asses, I would grab their titties and they would grab my crotch... that kind of thing. This makes it easy to sexually escalate with other women in a social setting because the level of comfort in sexually escalating without making it weird is telegraphed to the woman. This in turn raises your attraction level.
Conversationally, you're more attune to the, "double-talk" that women frequently use. What I mean by double-talk is the implied meanings of what a woman is saying to you. So many guys screw up when a woman is trying to tell them that she's free for the night and the guy takes the message too literally. For example: "I'm still drunk and my hotel is across the street." If you don't know what that means then you should take an ABC's of Attraction Bootcamp.
As far as the in-field stuff goes, your friend becomes a pivot. This adds more comfort and attraction to the women around you. What this does is it gives you [b]social proof[/b] that you may not have gotten before hand. Women can tell that you're an attractive male to even have female friends, and they feel comfortable even APPROACHING you when you're out in the field. Why make your life harder?
And sometimes, I would rather be around a pretty girl than my boys. It works out well if you're not interested in having a girlfriend but want the company of a woman in a non-sexual way. This is a rare thing to want, and call me whatever you want for wanting to watch When Harry Met Sally or have a friend to cook with but it just gets really gay if you watch with your homies.
Arguably, you can still have sex with your female friends or just have a fuck buddy and it would still instill the same confidence in a man but I find the friendship to be more lasting if sex isn't a major component of the relationship.
So where to find female friends?
Go to a place where you'll be every week that has women. This can be some dance class, a book club, or some place that you've been wanting to spend your time. I'm in college right now so I have friends that I meet from classes, but I've also made friends from acting classes or recently from a cold approach at a nightclub. Women are everywhere and the more time you spend with women in general, the more your comfort with women will be conveyed and your number closes, one-night stands, or anything else that you want will become more solid.
I've learned a lot about being around a group of my female friends over the years. Sometimes, I would be the only guy in their circle of conversation and would listen in on when they would talk about an unattractive and needy guy or another guy who was horrible at sex. Sitting in and listening not only gave me some insight on what women talk about, but also what things to avoid in regards to dating women. For a long time, I've developed a pretty good understanding of how women think and it really helped during my interactions with other women that I was sexually interested in.
With my female friends we would playfully slap each other's asses, I would grab their titties and they would grab my crotch... that kind of thing. This makes it easy to sexually escalate with other women in a social setting because the level of comfort in sexually escalating without making it weird is telegraphed to the woman. This in turn raises your attraction level.
Conversationally, you're more attune to the, "double-talk" that women frequently use. What I mean by double-talk is the implied meanings of what a woman is saying to you. So many guys screw up when a woman is trying to tell them that she's free for the night and the guy takes the message too literally. For example: "I'm still drunk and my hotel is across the street." If you don't know what that means then you should take an ABC's of Attraction Bootcamp.
As far as the in-field stuff goes, your friend becomes a pivot. This adds more comfort and attraction to the women around you. What this does is it gives you [b]social proof[/b] that you may not have gotten before hand. Women can tell that you're an attractive male to even have female friends, and they feel comfortable even APPROACHING you when you're out in the field. Why make your life harder?
And sometimes, I would rather be around a pretty girl than my boys. It works out well if you're not interested in having a girlfriend but want the company of a woman in a non-sexual way. This is a rare thing to want, and call me whatever you want for wanting to watch When Harry Met Sally or have a friend to cook with but it just gets really gay if you watch with your homies.
Arguably, you can still have sex with your female friends or just have a fuck buddy and it would still instill the same confidence in a man but I find the friendship to be more lasting if sex isn't a major component of the relationship.
So where to find female friends?
Go to a place where you'll be every week that has women. This can be some dance class, a book club, or some place that you've been wanting to spend your time. I'm in college right now so I have friends that I meet from classes, but I've also made friends from acting classes or recently from a cold approach at a nightclub. Women are everywhere and the more time you spend with women in general, the more your comfort with women will be conveyed and your number closes, one-night stands, or anything else that you want will become more solid.
Monday, January 12, 2009
Your Lifestyle: Casual or Serious Relationships?
I'm a firm believer that you are a product of the environment that you are in. The type of women that you're most likely interested in is in direct correlation with the type of lifestyle that you live. For example, if you're a person whose lifestyle involves being around parties all the time, little to no responsibility, living alone as a bachelor, lots of alcohol, and microwaveable dinners then you most likely will end up with certain types of women. Namely, the promiscuous, ADD party types. There is nothing inherently wrong about having superficial relationships; I have found that a lifestyle similar to what has been described above is not ideal for a serious relationship because it only makes sense for the bachelor. If you add a serious girlfriend into that relationship, it is quite difficult to imagine how you could fit, "relationship" time in there which is important to a woman. It's understood that you can reframe the relationship to be favorable to you, but from the relationships I have been accustomed to being in, I find that there should be an equal understanding of what's going on.
As expected, being in that environment described above is mainly desirable to a person whose interest is only in casual relationships. However, if you're a guy who wants to settle down and your environment is similar to the one described above then having a similar lifestyle may not be ideal for you to be getting into a serious relationship.
Another example is of a person who works a 9-5 office job all week, spends time at the gym, visits family on weekends, reads books in their spare time, and stays home with an occasional visit at a social gathering. This person has very limited encounters with women and the choice of women are most likely living a similar lifestyle with minor differences in activities. However, the limited number of women that are encountered with this type of lifestyle are most likely the types that are easier to settle down with because there isn't much change in the lifestyle of both people.
There are always two different types of relationships in dating. It's either a serious, committed relationship or a relationship where it's all about sex, pure attraction, and superficiality. Of course, an ideal relationship would include great sex, a woman with a great personality, and a person who is compatible with you but finding something like that takes a lot of effort.
There are always exceptions to the rules where you can find a woman with desirable and equal S&R (Survival and Replication) value but your lifestyle will determine whether or not you'll even meet women of that nature.
Of course, if you just want sex or an MLTR (Multiple Long Term Relationships) you can always run the ABC's model on whichever sexy lady you see and make the rules but it all really depends on what you want.
That's it for today :) Thanks for reading!
-Showtime
As expected, being in that environment described above is mainly desirable to a person whose interest is only in casual relationships. However, if you're a guy who wants to settle down and your environment is similar to the one described above then having a similar lifestyle may not be ideal for you to be getting into a serious relationship.
Another example is of a person who works a 9-5 office job all week, spends time at the gym, visits family on weekends, reads books in their spare time, and stays home with an occasional visit at a social gathering. This person has very limited encounters with women and the choice of women are most likely living a similar lifestyle with minor differences in activities. However, the limited number of women that are encountered with this type of lifestyle are most likely the types that are easier to settle down with because there isn't much change in the lifestyle of both people.
There are always two different types of relationships in dating. It's either a serious, committed relationship or a relationship where it's all about sex, pure attraction, and superficiality. Of course, an ideal relationship would include great sex, a woman with a great personality, and a person who is compatible with you but finding something like that takes a lot of effort.
There are always exceptions to the rules where you can find a woman with desirable and equal S&R (Survival and Replication) value but your lifestyle will determine whether or not you'll even meet women of that nature.
Of course, if you just want sex or an MLTR (Multiple Long Term Relationships) you can always run the ABC's model on whichever sexy lady you see and make the rules but it all really depends on what you want.
That's it for today :) Thanks for reading!
-Showtime
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Talk about jaded eh?
I'm not typically one to pour my heart on an online forum but these past few months have been quite pivotal in my self-improvement. The more you know about yourself and the world the more free you become. I may sound like a new-age hippie but you can go fuck yourself :).
Last Saturday night I went out to visit a friend before she leaves for NY for grad school. It's always nice to keep in touch with old friends. For you PUAs out there you can say that she's a part of some of my connection building stories that I tell to women to melt their hearts.
In any case, I've been so worn out from going to nightclubs. I'm sick of getting asked for cigarettes, what the time is, eating at Denny's, how someone knows me, and the like. I have numbers of girls who I have no idea where I met them from, and apparently I have friends that I myself did not know I had. So to amuse myself I've begun taking up people's time with energy numbing conversation.
How's the weather? Damn that John McCain eh? So you come here often? Please tell me the same story that I've heard over and over again about America's Best Dance Crew...Really...How does it feel?! (I'm not this jaded)
The typical night time outing activities ensue. I get dragged into some bachelorette party and make out with some of the ladies in the group. A year ago I'd turn that into a field report but it really isn't that uncommon to accomplish such feats once you've developed your game to a more natural form. They got to dance with me and got free kisses while I got further affirmation to feed my seemingly over-inflated ego. Fair trade to me!
I go outside to grab a cigarette from two Russian girls. The pretty one starts a conversation with me. I notice her fading mascara and her droopy eyes of sobriety then chuckle to myself because she looks like this chick I saw in a bukkake porno. Words are coming out of her mouth but I can't seem to care about what she's talking about so I cut her off.
"So why do you like Asian guys?"
She tells me that Asian guys have a lot of money. I tell her that most Asian guys probably don't know how to fuck. She laughs. I laugh in my head about how superficial this broad is. She tries to qualify me to her by asking me what I do. I tell her that I'm a professional kite flyer and that I turn into a vampire at night. She thinks I'm joking, but I'm intentionally fucking with her. She bores me.
She begins telling me a story about how she had to dress up in a nurses outfit to get her ex-boyfriend hard and how she tried so much just to get him horny. I ask her, "Do you suck good dick?"
She gets angry and begins to walk away. Her friend has been smirking this whole time and tells me that her friend needed to hear it. Cool. Thanks friend.
I check my phone and notice 12 missed calls. My promoters are 45 minutes away in a city that I should be in this night but I gave them the reigns to run the show and they talk to me like a terrorist just walked into the venue. I nod my head in disappointment and go back inside the venue for 3 shots of patron.
I go back outside and notice a rocker chick talking to a prototypical good looking, tall, buff, model dude. I overhear her conversation and it sounds a lot like the articles I've been writing online so I shoo the dude away and begin my conversation. (Yeah, just like that.)
We do some small talk and I ask her, "Do you think all guys are just trying to fuck you?" She says no, so I reward her with...something. In my delusional mind, an eye fuck is my reward system. I don't just eye fuck anyone :). In PU terms, I gave her an IOI which is more than a reward. (Yes I'm that full of myself)
We get into some connection and rapport building. She invites me to go inside to grab a drink (I forgot to mention that the venue I went to had an 80s night event next door) after I go back to my high school buddy.
Back in the club there's 2 more dudes who seem to be really into this chick that I've been setting my half-assed goals for the night on. I'm fine going home and making some top ramen then calling it a night so I put in about 20% of my effort into AMOGing (Yes I'm that full of myself).
The dude says,
"Hey! That's a nice jacket! It's like Prince!"
I remain non-reactive, look him in the eye, ignore him, go to the bar, and ask the bartender for a cup of water. Of course, the bartender was busy so I waited about a minute or two until I got my water. The chick and the two dudes give eachother a quizzical look, and as the first dude begins to talk I cut him off and with my friendliest, arm over his shoulder, and non-threatening smile I say,
"Thanks dude! I'm actually Prince, and I appreciate all the admiration from my fans."
He's not smart enough to keep up and begins talking to the chick again. I look into the eyes of the chick, and I notice that she's really attracted. So she's witty herself and gets into some story. I try to be interested but it's really boring to me. At the end of it she asks me to buy a round of drinks. I tell her to buy the first round and I'll get the second. She doesn't comply. I tell her to have a good night and begin walking away. She grabs my arm and tells me to come see her at the end of the night.
I go next door again back to my friend and we just hang out until closing time. I go back to the venue to find miss rocker chick talking to the same dude. I know he's not going home with her tonight. I let them exchange numbers and she comes over to me and surprises me with a planted kiss on the lips. She looks wasted, so I offer her a ride home. She tells me to hang out with her at her place for a little bit and with my developed common sense I understand that she wants sex.
Her friend wants to know if I'm some creep so I end up driving both of them home in my busted dodge caravan. I tell them it's my sexy van and to please not spill any pussy juice on my seats. I do some more comfort and connection building. They're both showing a lot of interest in me. They're both pushing for me to join them inside for some drinks, but I politely decline and they grab my number.
I tell myself that if I were to post this up that my readers would ask me why I would turn down such an invitation. Well, you're probably right. I could have gotten a double blow job like my buddy YellowCab, but hey... that's one for the record books.
Last Saturday night I went out to visit a friend before she leaves for NY for grad school. It's always nice to keep in touch with old friends. For you PUAs out there you can say that she's a part of some of my connection building stories that I tell to women to melt their hearts.
In any case, I've been so worn out from going to nightclubs. I'm sick of getting asked for cigarettes, what the time is, eating at Denny's, how someone knows me, and the like. I have numbers of girls who I have no idea where I met them from, and apparently I have friends that I myself did not know I had. So to amuse myself I've begun taking up people's time with energy numbing conversation.
How's the weather? Damn that John McCain eh? So you come here often? Please tell me the same story that I've heard over and over again about America's Best Dance Crew...Really...How does it feel?! (I'm not this jaded)
The typical night time outing activities ensue. I get dragged into some bachelorette party and make out with some of the ladies in the group. A year ago I'd turn that into a field report but it really isn't that uncommon to accomplish such feats once you've developed your game to a more natural form. They got to dance with me and got free kisses while I got further affirmation to feed my seemingly over-inflated ego. Fair trade to me!
I go outside to grab a cigarette from two Russian girls. The pretty one starts a conversation with me. I notice her fading mascara and her droopy eyes of sobriety then chuckle to myself because she looks like this chick I saw in a bukkake porno. Words are coming out of her mouth but I can't seem to care about what she's talking about so I cut her off.
"So why do you like Asian guys?"
She tells me that Asian guys have a lot of money. I tell her that most Asian guys probably don't know how to fuck. She laughs. I laugh in my head about how superficial this broad is. She tries to qualify me to her by asking me what I do. I tell her that I'm a professional kite flyer and that I turn into a vampire at night. She thinks I'm joking, but I'm intentionally fucking with her. She bores me.
She begins telling me a story about how she had to dress up in a nurses outfit to get her ex-boyfriend hard and how she tried so much just to get him horny. I ask her, "Do you suck good dick?"
She gets angry and begins to walk away. Her friend has been smirking this whole time and tells me that her friend needed to hear it. Cool. Thanks friend.
I check my phone and notice 12 missed calls. My promoters are 45 minutes away in a city that I should be in this night but I gave them the reigns to run the show and they talk to me like a terrorist just walked into the venue. I nod my head in disappointment and go back inside the venue for 3 shots of patron.
I go back outside and notice a rocker chick talking to a prototypical good looking, tall, buff, model dude. I overhear her conversation and it sounds a lot like the articles I've been writing online so I shoo the dude away and begin my conversation. (Yeah, just like that.)
We do some small talk and I ask her, "Do you think all guys are just trying to fuck you?" She says no, so I reward her with...something. In my delusional mind, an eye fuck is my reward system. I don't just eye fuck anyone :). In PU terms, I gave her an IOI which is more than a reward. (Yes I'm that full of myself)
We get into some connection and rapport building. She invites me to go inside to grab a drink (I forgot to mention that the venue I went to had an 80s night event next door) after I go back to my high school buddy.
Back in the club there's 2 more dudes who seem to be really into this chick that I've been setting my half-assed goals for the night on. I'm fine going home and making some top ramen then calling it a night so I put in about 20% of my effort into AMOGing (Yes I'm that full of myself).
The dude says,
"Hey! That's a nice jacket! It's like Prince!"
I remain non-reactive, look him in the eye, ignore him, go to the bar, and ask the bartender for a cup of water. Of course, the bartender was busy so I waited about a minute or two until I got my water. The chick and the two dudes give eachother a quizzical look, and as the first dude begins to talk I cut him off and with my friendliest, arm over his shoulder, and non-threatening smile I say,
"Thanks dude! I'm actually Prince, and I appreciate all the admiration from my fans."
He's not smart enough to keep up and begins talking to the chick again. I look into the eyes of the chick, and I notice that she's really attracted. So she's witty herself and gets into some story. I try to be interested but it's really boring to me. At the end of it she asks me to buy a round of drinks. I tell her to buy the first round and I'll get the second. She doesn't comply. I tell her to have a good night and begin walking away. She grabs my arm and tells me to come see her at the end of the night.
I go next door again back to my friend and we just hang out until closing time. I go back to the venue to find miss rocker chick talking to the same dude. I know he's not going home with her tonight. I let them exchange numbers and she comes over to me and surprises me with a planted kiss on the lips. She looks wasted, so I offer her a ride home. She tells me to hang out with her at her place for a little bit and with my developed common sense I understand that she wants sex.
Her friend wants to know if I'm some creep so I end up driving both of them home in my busted dodge caravan. I tell them it's my sexy van and to please not spill any pussy juice on my seats. I do some more comfort and connection building. They're both showing a lot of interest in me. They're both pushing for me to join them inside for some drinks, but I politely decline and they grab my number.
I tell myself that if I were to post this up that my readers would ask me why I would turn down such an invitation. Well, you're probably right. I could have gotten a double blow job like my buddy YellowCab, but hey... that's one for the record books.
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Street BJR - Logistical Gymnastics Part 1 & 2
(The names used in the field report aside from the ABCs team are changed to respect the anonymity of the women involved, and the great thing about this FR is there's a video that goes along with it)
The morning after the insane test of PU skills and time well spent with a great girl had “come” to an end; I took some time to reflect on my journey in becoming the man who I am today.
I remember after taking my first ABCs of Attraction bootcamp, I got to see poetry in motion through Johnny Wolf’s ridiculous handling of logistics. This was my first time meeting Johnny Wolf and we ended up going to a popular downtown SF venue for some sarging. My skills at the time were limited and I was still quite insecure about myself.
I remember walking with Johnny Wolf and two cute girls back to their hotel with a pesto chicken pizza and some beer. Along the way to the hotel we met with the other two friends of the girls we were with and this was the start of an extremely odd situation to me at the time. All four girls were in a crying woman fight about non-sense. All I knew at the time was that Johnny Wolf is going to fuck these chicks and I gotta wing to the best of my ability. So I followed Johnny Wolf and the girls like a puppy dog happily enjoying my pesto chicken pizza and enjoying the spectacle in front of me.
In the hotel room, I sat on the edge of the bed confused and intrigued at the situation at hand. I remember attempting to console one of the friends but Johnny Wolf immediately cut in and spoke quietly to me,
“It’s better that you just not talk and let them handle this themselves.”
I responded back inquisitively and equally as softly to Johnny Wolf, “How do you know that’s the best way to handle it?”
I never forgot what he said to me that night.
Johnny Wolf said, “When you do this long enough, you experience so much that you learn how to handle situations that the average person most likely won’t encounter.”
That night I had no idea that I went from the night club, to the pizza place, to the hotel. That was the extent of my knowledge. I was simply a naïve young ladies man in training enjoying the magic in front of me that can only be described as Johnny Wolf being a L337 level 70 mage in all epix could do. (Yes, this is a World of Warcraft reference. I retired my level 70 hunter named Calypso on the Akama server to learn what I know now. If you don't get it, look it up.)
Over the course of 8 months I went through with my daily life going to school, going to nightclubs, working my club promoting business, spending time with family, and quite obviously working with the ABCs team.
What I had not fully noticed until now is that my quality of life had slowly begun to improve in many areas. I was never able to get along with my parents but with my developing skills I had gotten to a point where we could now genuinely converse and get to know each other. I did not have the pleasure of doing this in the past. As some friends that I have had in the past began to fade away and new friends began coming into my life I noticed my friendships and connections with other people become even more meaningful because of my ability to read who is trustworthy and who is not. Leading my team of promoters allowed my business to become more cohesive and the training I received from APB helped me to become more focused in all that I do.
I no longer trip on my own two feet when I walk (literally).
I am no longer self-deprecating.
People treat me with more respect.
AMOGs can’t touch me.
People are laughing at my jokes again.
I now have purpose and physically move as such.
Women are fucking me.
I am more confident.
I am just being myself.
The experiences I had to go through within these 8 months were humbling, and I spent much of it destroying limiting beliefs and replacing them with better ones. The bumpy road that I took to get to where I am now has led me to become the guy I have always known myself to be. The difference is I have the external skills to be alpha and the inner-game to not be consumed by emotion.
I am in control of myself and everything I say and do is intentional.
I didn't have sex with the girl (pretty fucking close, but no cookie). So sit back and enjoy the story that will follow this post. I hope it'll be just as educational as well as entertaining for you as it was for me.
The morning after the insane test of PU skills and time well spent with a great girl had “come” to an end; I took some time to reflect on my journey in becoming the man who I am today.
I remember after taking my first ABCs of Attraction bootcamp, I got to see poetry in motion through Johnny Wolf’s ridiculous handling of logistics. This was my first time meeting Johnny Wolf and we ended up going to a popular downtown SF venue for some sarging. My skills at the time were limited and I was still quite insecure about myself.
I remember walking with Johnny Wolf and two cute girls back to their hotel with a pesto chicken pizza and some beer. Along the way to the hotel we met with the other two friends of the girls we were with and this was the start of an extremely odd situation to me at the time. All four girls were in a crying woman fight about non-sense. All I knew at the time was that Johnny Wolf is going to fuck these chicks and I gotta wing to the best of my ability. So I followed Johnny Wolf and the girls like a puppy dog happily enjoying my pesto chicken pizza and enjoying the spectacle in front of me.
In the hotel room, I sat on the edge of the bed confused and intrigued at the situation at hand. I remember attempting to console one of the friends but Johnny Wolf immediately cut in and spoke quietly to me,
“It’s better that you just not talk and let them handle this themselves.”
I responded back inquisitively and equally as softly to Johnny Wolf, “How do you know that’s the best way to handle it?”
I never forgot what he said to me that night.
Johnny Wolf said, “When you do this long enough, you experience so much that you learn how to handle situations that the average person most likely won’t encounter.”
That night I had no idea that I went from the night club, to the pizza place, to the hotel. That was the extent of my knowledge. I was simply a naïve young ladies man in training enjoying the magic in front of me that can only be described as Johnny Wolf being a L337 level 70 mage in all epix could do. (Yes, this is a World of Warcraft reference. I retired my level 70 hunter named Calypso on the Akama server to learn what I know now. If you don't get it, look it up.)
Over the course of 8 months I went through with my daily life going to school, going to nightclubs, working my club promoting business, spending time with family, and quite obviously working with the ABCs team.
What I had not fully noticed until now is that my quality of life had slowly begun to improve in many areas. I was never able to get along with my parents but with my developing skills I had gotten to a point where we could now genuinely converse and get to know each other. I did not have the pleasure of doing this in the past. As some friends that I have had in the past began to fade away and new friends began coming into my life I noticed my friendships and connections with other people become even more meaningful because of my ability to read who is trustworthy and who is not. Leading my team of promoters allowed my business to become more cohesive and the training I received from APB helped me to become more focused in all that I do.
I no longer trip on my own two feet when I walk (literally).
I am no longer self-deprecating.
People treat me with more respect.
AMOGs can’t touch me.
People are laughing at my jokes again.
I now have purpose and physically move as such.
Women are fucking me.
I am more confident.
I am just being myself.
The experiences I had to go through within these 8 months were humbling, and I spent much of it destroying limiting beliefs and replacing them with better ones. The bumpy road that I took to get to where I am now has led me to become the guy I have always known myself to be. The difference is I have the external skills to be alpha and the inner-game to not be consumed by emotion.
I am in control of myself and everything I say and do is intentional.
I didn't have sex with the girl (pretty fucking close, but no cookie). So sit back and enjoy the story that will follow this post. I hope it'll be just as educational as well as entertaining for you as it was for me.
Saturday, June 7, 2008
Being a wingman
This is a FR posted by my good buddy Keen from the SF Lair. He's definitely skilled, but what makes us great wings is that we get along really well as friends. Here it goes! Thanks Keen.
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Yesterday Andrew and I hit Union Square for this entrepreneur business pitch competition. On the way there we end up getting propositioned by a 40+ year old drunk MILF looking for some fun who we had stopped to ask for directions. After major instant kino, and a kiss (all of which she initiated), I opt to continue with the plans, as we had both paid $25 each for the business event.
After the event, we decide to try and go by her Hotel, which Andrew had remembered the name of. Turns out she was so drunk she passed out, lol. Too bad...she missed out of some great dick. Walking around Union Square again, I stop off at this cafe to use the restroom. I spot two STUNNINGLY GORGEOUS girls and greet them as I walk by. I tell Andrew to go back and try to open them as I head into the bathroom. I return to see Andrew engaging both of the hotties. The girls were sitting at a table with only two chairs, and Mr. Showtime had even thought ahead and gotten one of the girls up out of the chair so I would have a place to sit down and talk to the other one when I came back in semi-isolation. MAJOR PROPS BRO! Thats how you wing a set. They are Israeli and visiting until Sunday, just spent 4 months in South America. We both do out thing, I ask about her travels and enjoy some light rapport and banter. She was Moroccan, French, and Italian and soooo fucking hot!. Seriously, the type of girl that makes your cock pulsate for hours after you see her. We leave the restaurant, and then switch girls to ensure comfort. Andrew's idea, very good my brother. They had to get back. We walk them to BART and make plans to take them out on Friday.
The adventures continued as we wondered the SF streets looking for where I had parked. We both decided we had not had enough and hit up Matrix in the Marina. On the way there I got a call from Darren, a guy I had met at the Wygant lair meeting. He said he just got back in town and was on day 15 of his 30 day challenge. He met up with us, and as Andrew and I are chatting away about girls he wanders off and starts opening sets. I was blown away. I have found that so many newer community guys will want you to hold their hand through every set just like a child, and this guys just got his ass up and started opening, no hesitation. We chilled some more and opened the rest of the few sets that were there on a Wednesday. This guys is real solid and I can see him getting very good.
Andrew, thanks for being the great wing you are my brother.
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Yesterday Andrew and I hit Union Square for this entrepreneur business pitch competition. On the way there we end up getting propositioned by a 40+ year old drunk MILF looking for some fun who we had stopped to ask for directions. After major instant kino, and a kiss (all of which she initiated), I opt to continue with the plans, as we had both paid $25 each for the business event.
After the event, we decide to try and go by her Hotel, which Andrew had remembered the name of. Turns out she was so drunk she passed out, lol. Too bad...she missed out of some great dick. Walking around Union Square again, I stop off at this cafe to use the restroom. I spot two STUNNINGLY GORGEOUS girls and greet them as I walk by. I tell Andrew to go back and try to open them as I head into the bathroom. I return to see Andrew engaging both of the hotties. The girls were sitting at a table with only two chairs, and Mr. Showtime had even thought ahead and gotten one of the girls up out of the chair so I would have a place to sit down and talk to the other one when I came back in semi-isolation. MAJOR PROPS BRO! Thats how you wing a set. They are Israeli and visiting until Sunday, just spent 4 months in South America. We both do out thing, I ask about her travels and enjoy some light rapport and banter. She was Moroccan, French, and Italian and soooo fucking hot!. Seriously, the type of girl that makes your cock pulsate for hours after you see her. We leave the restaurant, and then switch girls to ensure comfort. Andrew's idea, very good my brother. They had to get back. We walk them to BART and make plans to take them out on Friday.
The adventures continued as we wondered the SF streets looking for where I had parked. We both decided we had not had enough and hit up Matrix in the Marina. On the way there I got a call from Darren, a guy I had met at the Wygant lair meeting. He said he just got back in town and was on day 15 of his 30 day challenge. He met up with us, and as Andrew and I are chatting away about girls he wanders off and starts opening sets. I was blown away. I have found that so many newer community guys will want you to hold their hand through every set just like a child, and this guys just got his ass up and started opening, no hesitation. We chilled some more and opened the rest of the few sets that were there on a Wednesday. This guys is real solid and I can see him getting very good.
Andrew, thanks for being the great wing you are my brother.
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Toronto Bootcamp
Johnny Wolf gave me a call to let me know that he invited me to go to Toronto for a bootcamp. I was pretty enthusiastic to hear about that.
People have always been a hobby of mine. There is so much to each individual person on this earth with a whole entire story of their own that I find such an interest in getting to know the people I meet.
That is why I truly enjoy teaching what I have learned to others. Specifically, I love women. By breaking down the bad social habits of the students I encounter and presenting them with the tools to grow...I am assisting in the growth of people all over the world vicariously through the chain of connections people have made after taking a bootcamp.
Learning how to be able to connect with other human beings is a beautiful thing. Understanding your humanity and sharing your knowledge with the world, as well as becoming the best man you can be for the woman of your dreams is an amazing feeling.
As humans, we are constantly on a path to understanding our existence and nobody will ever reach the full understanding. I still have much to learn but have accomplished so much in these past 7 months since my journey to becoming a PUA.
Damn the media for making being a PUA sound bad. In any case, I look forward to being in Toronto and sharing my time and knowledge with some new friends.
People have always been a hobby of mine. There is so much to each individual person on this earth with a whole entire story of their own that I find such an interest in getting to know the people I meet.
That is why I truly enjoy teaching what I have learned to others. Specifically, I love women. By breaking down the bad social habits of the students I encounter and presenting them with the tools to grow...I am assisting in the growth of people all over the world vicariously through the chain of connections people have made after taking a bootcamp.
Learning how to be able to connect with other human beings is a beautiful thing. Understanding your humanity and sharing your knowledge with the world, as well as becoming the best man you can be for the woman of your dreams is an amazing feeling.
As humans, we are constantly on a path to understanding our existence and nobody will ever reach the full understanding. I still have much to learn but have accomplished so much in these past 7 months since my journey to becoming a PUA.
Damn the media for making being a PUA sound bad. In any case, I look forward to being in Toronto and sharing my time and knowledge with some new friends.
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